- How do the author’s mother and grandmother react when he falls in love with a Japanese woman? Why is the author so concerned about marrying someone who is not Mexican? Do you agree with Gary Soto that family background is as important as ethnicity in determining how well a young couple might get along?
- Examine different points of view about marrying outside one’s culture and identify the factors that distinguish groups from one another. (Examples might be race, religion, and social class.) Discuss the advantages and disadvantages of marrying outside one’s group.
I think that they dnt agree with him beause they are different, and they think that they have money and wouldn't go out with someone that is poor. And also every in the family married someone that was Mexicans just like them selves. I think it does really matter what they are I think it matters how they are with which and what they like and how they treat each other. But some family think that that's important, but not everyone. People can talk and say mean things, their life can be hard because their own family won't agree and they might lose family. But it's on a person if they are ok to lose their family for love that's their own choice to do and it's like a sacrifice and maybe someday their family will accept it.